Dear Abby: Ex-wife does like that I’m n’t dating her cousin

Man’s previous partner is wanting to turn their friends, grown young ones and parents contrary to the few.

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DEAR ABBY: i will be a 57-year-old guy who happens to be divorced for eight years. (My ex-wife ended up being usually the one who filed.) Not long ago I reconnected with my ex-wife’s sibling, “Edith,” whom I’dn’t noticed in years. We started a relationship, which includes developed right into a relationship that is serious.

My ex is issues that are having our love and has now been wanting to turn buddies, our grown kiddies and our moms and dads against us.

We have been both solitary and luxuriate in each company that is other’s. Can there be any good reason why we ought to maybe not pursue this relationship, because “we’re upsetting my ex-wife’s family”? — TWO FANS IN NYC

DEAR TWO LOVERS: if your wife left you, she destroyed the proper to dictate do the following along with your life — including who you date and even marry next. She actually is acting like the proverbial dog in the manger, and we sincerely wish your friends and relations don’t let her escape along with it. Now get and now have a life that is good since you and Edith deserve one.

DEAR ABBY: Ever I have felt like my mother hates me since I can remember. Growing up, my two brothers got whatever they wanted while I experienced to beg for things we wanted. A good example: My brothers got a motor vehicle for graduation; i obtained contacts. Neither one could do just about anything incorrect during my mother’s eyes, but whatever used to do had been wrong.

Now that I’m a grownup, she nevertheless treats me personally in this manner, also it’s making me depressed. We have medical problems I have that she refuses to believe. Exactly what do i actually do in order to make my mom just like me? — DEPRESSED DAUGHTER IN PENNSYLVANIA

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